{"id":4087,"date":"2020-05-09T12:27:42","date_gmt":"2020-05-09T12:27:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/?p=4087"},"modified":"2020-05-09T17:04:58","modified_gmt":"2020-05-09T17:04:58","slug":"adrede-o-sin-darse-cuenta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/adrede-o-sin-darse-cuenta\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfAdrede o sin darse cuenta?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-4097 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/adrede.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"451\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/adrede.jpg 600w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/adrede-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/adrede-400x267.jpg 400w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/adrede-430x287.jpg 430w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/adrede-150x100.jpg 150w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/adrede-100x67.jpg 100w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/adrede-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 451px) 100vw, 451px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Culpamos a las personas de hacer ciertos conductas adrede, de manera continua y exagerada y creemos que los hace a prop\u00f3sito, por voluntad propia, sin cuestionarnos que puede haber detr\u00e1s de esa conducta. Hoy quiero comentar algo que ocurre muy a menudo y a veces de manera injusta, sin conocimientos de c\u00f3mo funciona nuestro cerebro y nuestra mente. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\"><\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a674e302695f\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a674e302695f\"  aria-label=\"Alternar\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/adrede-o-sin-darse-cuenta\/#La_maquina_desajustada\" >La m\u00e1quina desajustada<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/adrede-o-sin-darse-cuenta\/#%C2%BFQue_se_puede_hacer\" >\u00bfQu\u00e9 se puede hacer?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/adrede-o-sin-darse-cuenta\/#%C2%BFPodemos_culpar_a_la_maquina_de_que_no_funcione_como_todos_desean\" >\u00bfPodemos culpar a la m\u00e1quina de que no funcione como todos desean?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/adrede-o-sin-darse-cuenta\/#%C2%ABSI%C2%BB_y_%C2%ABNO%C2%BB\" >\u00abSI\u00bb y \u00abNO\u00bb<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/adrede-o-sin-darse-cuenta\/#%C2%BFPor_que_%C2%ABNO%C2%BB\" >\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 \u00abNO\u00bb?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/adrede-o-sin-darse-cuenta\/#%C2%BFPor_que_%C2%BB_si%C2%BB\" >\u00bfPor que \u00bb si\u00bb?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/adrede-o-sin-darse-cuenta\/#Ya_hemos_dado_el_primer_paso\" >Ya hemos dado el primer paso.<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_maquina_desajustada\"><\/span>La m\u00e1quina desajustada<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-4091 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"165\" height=\"137\" srcset=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-1.jpg 246w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-1-150x124.jpg 150w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-1-100x83.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 165px) 100vw, 165px\" \/><\/a>Imaginaos que se empez\u00f3 a fabricar una maquina muy sofisticada, con muchos mecanismos diferentes, en la que participaban una o dos personas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Imaginaos que durante su fabricaci\u00f3n la persona que la constru\u00eda se despist\u00f3, o no estuvo bastante concentrado, o no llegaba a entenderla, o se tuvo que ausentar por algo y un ayudante la sigui\u00f3 construyendo sin tener conocimientos adecuados o adaptados a esa maquina.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Y la maquina sigui\u00f3 siendo fabricada a pesar de contratiempos<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Pero cuando la maquina se puso en marcha, result\u00f3 que no llegaba a funcionar bien del todo, tenia DESAJUSTES<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%C2%BFQue_se_puede_hacer\"><\/span><strong>\u00bfQu\u00e9 se puede hacer?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-4094 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"152\" height=\"152\" srcset=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-1.png 300w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-1-150x150.png 150w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-1-100x100.png 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 152px) 100vw, 152px\" \/><\/a>Lo primero que se intent\u00f3 es arreglar esos desajustes, poniendo un parche,\u00a0 funcionaba bien un tiempo pero volv\u00eda a funcional mal despu\u00e9s, y as\u00ed segu\u00edan reparando la m\u00e1quina: parche, tras parche, sin que consiguieran que la maquina tuviera un funcionamiento optimo. Solo se fijaban en lo que la m\u00e1quina hacia, pero no se preguntaban por qu\u00e9 lo hacia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Hubo una persona que sabia m\u00e1s de m\u00e1quinas y percibi\u00f3 que lo que le pasaba a la m\u00e1quina es que tenia varias piezas mal encajadas, busco estos fallos, mir\u00f3 si se pueden reparar. Descubri\u00f3 que no todos eran cambiables o reparables, y lo que hizo fue ajustarlos de la mejor manera posible para que la m\u00e1quina pudiera realizar su trabajo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%C2%BFPodemos_culpar_a_la_maquina_de_que_no_funcione_como_todos_desean\"><\/span><strong>\u00bfPodemos culpar a la m\u00e1quina de que no funcione como todos desean?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%C2%ABSI%C2%BB_y_%C2%ABNO%C2%BB\"><\/span><strong>\u00abSI\u00bb y \u00abNO\u00bb<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-4090 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"71\" height=\"58\" srcset=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a.jpeg 620w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-300x250.jpeg 300w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-400x333.jpeg 400w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-430x358.jpeg 430w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-150x125.jpeg 150w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-100x83.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 71px) 100vw, 71px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%C2%BFPor_que_%C2%ABNO%C2%BB\"><\/span>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 \u00abNO\u00bb?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Eso es lo que hacemos cuando una persona muestras conductas (rasgos de personalidad) que no consideramos adecuados y la culpamos de no cambiarlos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Por ejemplo: llamar la atenci\u00f3n continuamente, querer ser siempre el centro de atenci\u00f3n, o personas que siempre est\u00e1n buscando la aprobaci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s, que les digan lo bien que lo hacen, o personas que no pueden estar solas porque entran en un estado depresivo, o por ejemplo culpar a los dem\u00e1s de todo, pensar que los dem\u00e1s nos envidian&#8230;, hay multitud de comportamientos que es f\u00e1cil percibir en los dem\u00e1s y dif\u00edcil verlos en nosotros mismos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Los\u00a0 otros pueden incluso criticar eso que hacemos, y sentirnos heridos porque no entendemos lo que pasa, nosotros nos vemos normales.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Qu\u00e9 f\u00e1cil es \u00abver la paja en el ojo ajeno y que dif\u00edcil ver la viga en el nuestro\u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Por eso creemos que eso que hacen lo hace adrede, es tan evidente que no podemos creer que lo hagan sin darse cuenta.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Y actuamos dici\u00e9ndoselo para que lo cambie, d\u00e1ndole consejos de c\u00f3mo actuar&#8230;\u00a0 incluso podemos enfadarnos, sin darnos cuenta que su mal funcionamiento no viene de la conciencia (en parte) sino de un defectuoso montaje.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%C2%BFPor_que_%C2%BB_si%C2%BB\"><\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-4089\" src=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"74\" height=\"55\" srcset=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a.jpg 1319w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-300x226.jpg 300w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-1024x770.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-768x578.jpg 768w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-750x564.jpg 750w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-400x301.jpg 400w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-430x323.jpg 430w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-150x113.jpg 150w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-100x75.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 74px) 100vw, 74px\" \/><\/a> \u00bfPor que \u00bb si\u00bb?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Somos responsables de nuestros actos<\/strong> (cuidado no confundir con culpables), somos animales sociales, y nos desarrollamos, vivimos y nos realizamos en conjunto con otras personas. Las otras personas son nuestros espejos y si escuchamos algo de nosotros de manera repetida y de varias personas distintas, en momentos diferentes a lo largo de nuestra vida, quiz\u00e1s necesitar\u00edamos escucharlos, <strong>quiz\u00e1s&#8230; tengan raz\u00f3n<\/strong> y nos comportemos como nos est\u00e1n indicando esas personas que nos aprecian. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Y aunque no nos guste podr\u00edamos preguntarnos :<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfY SI TIENEN RAZ\u00d3N?.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ya_hemos_dado_el_primer_paso\"><\/span>Ya hemos dado el primer paso. <a href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-4088 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"65\" height=\"65\" srcset=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a.png 512w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-300x300.png 300w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-150x150.png 150w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-400x400.png 400w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-430x430.png 430w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-100x100.png 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 65px) 100vw, 65px\" \/><\/a><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Ya hemos empezado nuestro camino de auto conciencia, de b\u00fasqueda interior, de dudar de que todo lo que hacemos y creemos es \u00fanico y cierto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Empezamos el recorrido del camino del conocimiento personal, lleno de alegr\u00edas y lagrimas. Lleno de ambig\u00fcedades, de contradicciones, de descubrimientos. El sendero del autoconocimiento.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Podemos tener un \u00abdefecto de fabricaci\u00f3n\u00bb pero si sabemos cual es nos ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil reparar las piezas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #ff6600;\">Busca tu rayito de sol\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4092 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"117\" height=\"112\" srcset=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-2.jpg 117w, http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-2-100x96.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 117px) 100vw, 117px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Aura Marqu\u00e9s<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Psic\u00f3loga habilitada Sanitaria<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Culpamos a las personas de hacer ciertos conductas adrede, de manera continua y exagerada y creemos que los hace a prop\u00f3sito, por voluntad propia, sin cuestionarnos que puede haber detr\u00e1s de esa conducta. 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