{"id":4715,"date":"2021-02-28T00:19:39","date_gmt":"2021-02-28T00:19:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/?p=4715"},"modified":"2021-02-26T19:20:25","modified_gmt":"2021-02-26T19:20:25","slug":"empatia-si-con-limites","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/empatia-si-con-limites\/","title":{"rendered":"Empat\u00eda si, con l\u00edmites"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"4715\" class=\"elementor elementor-4715\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2e99914 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2e99914\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c0d5200\" data-id=\"c0d5200\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dffe508 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"dffe508\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/elementor\/thumbs\/empatizar-o-simpatizar-p1sv8er2tda3fxwfo6xywih8ejhs3zxrky428q6t84.jpg\" title=\"empatizar o simpatizar\" alt=\"empatizar o simpatizar\" class=\"elementor-animation-grow\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6e2a7526 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6e2a7526\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8fac4d2\" data-id=\"8fac4d2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-28c08d3d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"28c08d3d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Me cuentan:<br \/>-yo no puedo contarle a mi madre las cosas que me pasan porque se pone fatal, una vez le dije que me hac\u00edan bulling y estuvo una semana en la cama llorando. As\u00ed que me guardo para mi las cosas malas.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Esto ocurre muy a menudo, otro ejemplo:<br \/>-me paso algo terrible, me cuentan, y se lo fui a contar a una amiga y ella se puso a llorar, y ya no supe que hacer, me sent\u00ed fatal por hab\u00e9rselo contado, yo solo lo hice porque necesitaba que me escuchara y ya est\u00e1.<\/span><\/p><p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Otro ejemplo que me han contado y que hace el efecto contrario:<br \/>-me fue mal el d\u00eda, quiero cont\u00e1rselo a un amigo y cuando se lo cuento en lugar de preguntarme como estoy se pone a hablar de cuando a \u00e9l le ocurri\u00f3 lo mismo y no me deja casi ni terminar, me he sentido que no me escuchaba ni me calmaba lo que me contaba.<\/span><\/p><div style=\"text-align: justify;\" data-index=\"1\">\u00a0<\/div><p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><\/div> <a href=\"http:\/\/psicologiaviva.com\/blog\/empatia-si-con-limites\/#more-4715\" class=\"more-link elementor-more-link\"><span aria-label=\"Sigue leyendo Empat\u00eda si, con l\u00edmites\">(m\u00e1s&hellip;)<\/span><\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Me cuentan: -yo no puedo contarle a mi madre las cosas que me pasan porque se pone fatal, una vez le dije que me hac\u00edan bulling y estuvo una semana en la cama llorando. 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